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It wasn't that important
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:20:42 pm


Tomorrow is the deadline for finishing the project that I quit last week. I have been checking obsessively every day and there still haven't been any changes. The deadline will definitely be missed.

If meeting the deadline was so important, then a replacement for me would have been found very quickly. All the complex backend stuff has already been finished. The only "important" changes left were cosmetic. This involved changing the size of text, moving a few things around, changing a few words, etc. My client once lost sleep because I had spelled out the full state names in a drop down list instead of using two letter codes. He typically sleeps from 7pm to 4am, but he sent me a message at 1am telling me that he was losing sleep over this. That gives you an idea of what he considers "important".

I know that he hasn't cancelled the project, because he has been updating prices every day. That means he will launch the site without the important changes that he thought merited repeated harassment. The deadline itself wasn't important either. If it had been so important to start on October 1, then the business would be doomed. That implies that there is no other time when the business could be profitable, which is absolutely untrue. It's not as if there was some kind of cost involved in waiting. He isn't renting retail space or even a warehouse. This troubles me, because I suffered for nothing. I lost sleep and overworked myself for something that wasn't important.
1) rhodochrosite,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:25:30 pm

* hug *

So he is detached from reality in his expectations, as you said you suspected previously.

Glad you're no longer working w/ him.
2) erdos0,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:26:00 pm

agrees with: comment#1
* hug *

So he is detached from reality in his expectations, as you said you suspected previously.

Glad you're no longer working w/ him.
3) morag,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:54:48 pm

I suffered four months in a job once that wasn't considered important. When it was over, I called my husband right away to tell him that I am free. That's what you should keep in mind, too.
4) nhp,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:58:00 pm

agrees with: comment#1
* hug *

So he is detached from reality in his expectations, as you said you suspected previously.

Glad you're no longer working w/ him.
5) erdos0,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:59:51 pm

I have thought about creating one.
6) erdos0,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:00:31 pm

re: comment#3
I suffered four months in a job once that wasn't considered important. When it was over, I called my husband right away to tell him that I am free. That's what you should keep in mind, too.
What kind of work did that involve?
7) morag,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:08:15 pm

re: comment#6
What kind of work did that involve?
Dealing with people properly in field where this is difficult. My boss viewed that differently though. For him it was more about abusing them as much as possible. It doesn't matter. It was my first job after graduating. Now I am having a job that I consider as important most of the time.
8) xo_justfun_xo,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:13:25 pm

Fuck that asshole. He doesn't deserve your services then. <--- uncharacteristically nasty today, but still.
9) erdos0,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:21:40 pm

agrees with: comment#8
Fuck that asshole. He doesn't deserve your services then. <--- uncharacteristically nasty today, but still.
10) tigg,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 5:27:15 pm

Ugh. Best to just let go. Not check the updates on the website etc, cause by now you really have all the proof you need that he's a complete wanker.
11) ren,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:36:22 pm

agrees with: comment#10
Ugh. Best to just let go. Not check the updates on the website etc, cause by now you really have all the proof you need that he's a complete wanker.
12) evilserif,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:44:30 pm

now that you're not working for him yo ushould send us the link to the website. ;)

♥ Sorry he was so lame.
13) binauralbeat,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 9:50:26 pm

14) erdos0,
Fri Sep 30, 2011 10:27:01 pm

re: comment#12
now that you're not working for him yo ushould send us the link to the website. ;)

♥ Sorry he was so lame.
Why do you want to see it?
15) sweeneyjohn,
Sat Oct 1, 2011 2:10:30 am

agrees with: comment#8
Fuck that asshole. He doesn't deserve your services then. <--- uncharacteristically nasty today, but still.
16) not_for_you,
Sat Oct 1, 2011 3:05:01 am

agrees with this post
17) smalltowngirlnb,
Sat Oct 1, 2011 3:39:32 am

re: comment#14
Why do you want to see it?
Why not?

Sorry to hear that you are kind of bummed about the whole experience. I use these kind of experiences to identify my limits and to speak up the next time when my limits are being neared.
18) erdos0,
Sat Oct 1, 2011 3:41:06 am

re: comment#17
Why not?

Sorry to hear that you are kind of bummed about the whole experience. I use these kind of experiences to identify my limits and to speak up the next time when my limits are being neared.
It does not accurately reflect my artistic preferences and it is incomplete.
19) smalltowngirlnb,
Sat Oct 1, 2011 3:47:14 am

re: comment#18
It does not accurately reflect my artistic preferences and it is incomplete.
Oh, okay.
20) evilserif,
Mon Oct 3, 2011 1:59:02 pm

re: comment#14
Why do you want to see it?
just curious. no specific reason.