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I just watched
Mon Jan 2, 2012 9:57:40 pm


an interesting documentary on the drug companies pushing the idea of "female sexual dysfunction". The companies are fighting to see which one of them will get theirs to the public first.

So one treatment which was being tested was a wire that was put into the back up along the spine. (the woman they showed was maybe in her early fifties and felt she was not 'normal' because she could not achieve orgasm through intercourse.) The woman was implanted with the wire and it worked unfortunately it worked by stimulating her left leg to move up an down. she had to take the wire out. so it comes out in this documentary that she could achieve orgasms in other ways but she thought she should be able to do it through intercourse. Since it has been taken out she has accepted that she might not achieve orgasms through intercourse but that she should take matters into her own hands and find peace with that. She feels she is normal now even without orgasm through intercourse.

lord have mercy. can you half way believe that this woman put herself at such risk in order to NOT HAVE ORGASMS but to have them through INTERCOURSE. She had a loving husband and a nice house and seemed rather normal. I think there had to be something off through. Or maybe I guess I just don't worry about how my orgasms come about as long as they do and she was.

The other thing that they talked about was the vaginal reduction of both the labia (women either felt they are too long, wide, they are crooked...?) and so they have surgery to 'correct' this problem. While they are there they also sometimes take the packaged deal for making the clitoral hood smaller. what the fuck are these women thinking? One woman who was featured had the surgery and a suture broke when she got home and by the time she got to the ER she said she was told she had lost 1/3 of her blood. Evidently, because of the veins, I think they said, which are plentiful in the vaginal area blood flows much more quickly than in other areas.

I am kinda floored. The movie is called 'orgasm inc' and is on net flix.

One of the women talked to *one who did not have any surgery* said something that really struck me: she was talking about how women sometimes get so caught up in their lover not seeing them from this or that view that they miss out on the pleasure they are desiring. So she said: what women don't understand is that the feeling of being sexy comes from inside not from how big your thighs are.

"one pill makes you larger and another pill makes you small"

Wow.
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1) erdos0,
Mon Jan 2, 2012 10:17:46 pm

Interesting.
2) binauralbeat,
Mon Jan 2, 2012 10:40:16 pm

re: comment#1
Interesting.
It is so scary to me that it feels like we are moving backward in time when women are doing this of their own free will. And we are fighting genital mutilation in other Countries?
3) rubberchicken,
Mon Jan 2, 2012 10:50:55 pm

Sounds to me like merkins will have a come back:

4) binauralbeat,
Mon Jan 2, 2012 10:53:15 pm

re: comment#3
Sounds to me like merkins will have a come back:

Leave it to you, just leave it to you.
Smiles. I guess you might be right though.
5) tifaerie,
Tue Jan 3, 2012 3:48:25 am

im so glad i dont have these issues...... andy is the FIRST guy i ever had an orgasm through intercourse with....not that i had to much experience before him, but i like that he is the only one who could/has/does
6) greenerpastures,
Tue Jan 3, 2012 7:47:36 am

Wow, what an interesting topic. I guess I am easy, or very relaxed during sex, because these issues have never come to mind. I have orgasms of all kinds, easily and happily. I think it is because once I am in the moment, I completely let go of everything else. I figure if he has seen me naked and we are still having sex, he finds me attractive enough. No need to be self conscious at that point.
7) binauralbeat,
Tue Jan 3, 2012 7:46:46 pm

re: comment#6
Wow, what an interesting topic. I guess I am easy, or very relaxed during sex, because these issues have never come to mind. I have orgasms of all kinds, easily and happily. I think it is because once I am in the moment, I completely let go of everything else. I figure if he has seen me naked and we are still having sex, he finds me attractive enough. No need to be self conscious at that point.
I agree with what you say here. I did not used to be relaxed but as I have gotten older I find myself much more comfortable with it.
8) binauralbeat,
Tue Jan 3, 2012 7:47:06 pm

re: comment#5
im so glad i dont have these issues...... andy is the FIRST guy i ever had an orgasm through intercourse with....not that i had to much experience before him, but i like that he is the only one who could/has/does