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Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:36:25 pm
I'm not passive, but I'm not agressive either. I go with the flow. Last night my cousin ripped my phone out of my hand, tore it apart, and threw it across the room. This was in response to me USING THE FRONT DOOR.
I came home, someone called, we're talking, I decide to go outside so as to not wake anyone, and then when I'm super cold and tired of sitting on cold concrete, I come back inside. This is when my cousin comes barging out of her room like a crazed hippo and screams at me for ...using the door. Mind you, I'm being very quiet about this, and trying to be considerate by freezing outside instead of blabbing away indoors where I might be potentially disturbing the peace.
A half hour or so later, her friend leaves.
Now... I can understand being upset about the door if you're trying to sleep, but if you have company over, what difference does the sound of a door being opened three times or not make? I can't figure that part out. I walk over to the front door in total disbelief, and I said "You had a friend over and you're screaming at me to be quiet?"
That's when she flipped out. I thought she was going to hit me, but she grabbed my cell phone and for some awesome reason, killed it.
My response to this has just been not to talk to her. I prefer to keep people like this at bay, and ignore them. It's not worth my time fighting any stupid battle.
Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:41:25 pm
Does your phone still work? I would break her phone if she did that to me.
Thu Jan 28, 2010 7:41:09 pm
It is in two pieces. I don't play that way. I wish I did sometimes.
Thu Jan 28, 2010 7:51:44 pm
re: comment#2
It is in two pieces. I don't play that way. I wish I did sometimes.
Do you have to pay to replace the phone?
Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:12:01 pm
Are you able to understand why your cousin acts the way she does?
Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:56:22 pm
No. I understand becoming upset but I don't understand how destroying anothers property is an acceptable action. I don't understand a lot about this whole deal.
Fri Jan 29, 2010 12:14:12 am
Maybe use the back door next time?
Yeah, I don't get it, either. She sounds insane.
Fri Jan 29, 2010 12:14:24 am
agrees with: comment#1
Does your phone still work? I would break her phone if she did that to me.
Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:26:16 am
re: comment#3
Do you have to pay to replace the phone?
Yes, I bought a new one a few hours ago.Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:39:14 am
re: comment#8
Yes, I bought a new one a few hours ago.
It's unfair. She should pay.Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:26:42 am
She won't. There is nothing I can do.
Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:28:18 am
re: comment#5
No. I understand becoming upset but I don't understand how destroying anothers property is an acceptable action. I don't understand a lot about this whole deal.
Her reaction is disproportionate to the severity of the incident, she seem to have issue, it would be beneficial for you to find out why she acts that way, unless you plan on to never see her again.no image
12) jodymarie, Fri Feb 5, 2010 5:39:58 pm
it's interesting to me; that you seem to forget that you came in and out of the house... atleast 6 times. its interesting to me, that you being the big brave girl you are, can put this on the computer, and im sure tell everyone you know about how crazy i am, but cant say anything to my face. stop thinking about yourself for, oh i dont know, 2.5 seconds, (i know, it hurts; your pretty amazeballs so it must be hard) but you KNOW what would of happened if the dog would of woken up. you KNOW you opened the door more then once, and wait i'm sorry.. this JUST hit me.. i had said to you "if its to cold to go outside to talk on the fone, DONT but stop running in and out of the house"
".. I decide to go outside so as to not wake anyone, and then when I'm super cold and tired of sitting on cold concrete, I come back inside."
and you also fail to mention in your little hate speech, is that YOU got into MY face. i ASKED you to stop coming in and out of the house, from the other side of the damned room. you on the other hand, RAN INTO my FACE RANTING about lamar being over. because ya kno, me and lamar are TOTALLY gonna wake mom up. NOT the TWO loud as front doors being repeatedly opened. riiiight. regardless colleen, you got into my face, still on the phone, and drunk. talkin all types of shit. maybe you were to drunk to remember your speech, i dont really know or care, but you talked shit FIRST. i apperently ended it. because, well obviously you felt like a tough-tough with an audience, (that being the person on the phone) and having a little liquor in your system.
your reaaaal cool now.
much love ♥
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13) jodymarie, Fri Feb 5, 2010 5:44:12 pm
re: comment#11
Her reaction is disproportionate to the severity of the incident, she seem to have issue, it would be beneficial for you to find out why she acts that way, unless you plan on to never see her again.
i'm sorry, that i don't know who you are, or that you've only gotten one side of this twisted story, but it was a very appropiate action. colleen weighs a good 50 pounds more then me, and was threatening me with her stature. she really left me with no choice. if i hadnt gotten her out of my face by breaking that prepaid phone, she was going to hit me. she also fails to mention in her blog here about how she was threatening ME. i asked her repeatedly to get out of my face, and she didnt, she kept asking me what i was going to do, and i replied with im goin to scream and wake every one up, and she told me to go for it. not like your going to believe any of this, but i felt like your judging me without even knowing me, or without really knowing who colleen reaaaally is.
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14) jodymarie, Fri Feb 5, 2010 5:44:45 pm
re: comment#10
She won't. There is nothing I can do.
hahahhahahahaha you could of easily asked me the next day, after the fight. instead of talking shit about me 