| sallyknox |
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Tue Dec 7, 2010 4:54:55 pm
There are various reasons why you should try using a Sex Toy. There are also many excuses that people give for not trying a Sex Toy, some say they do not need them, some are embarrassed by the very thought, some men may feel threatened by them (some women too I guess). My personal opinion is that we are all different and our lives are richer by trying new things. Not trying a Sex Toy is like not eating Indian food because we don’t like the look of it. How do you know if it enriches your life unless you have a go?
Anyway, for those of you that may need more of a reason than just “have a go”, here are my 5 Top Reasons to try a Sex Toy.
1) Sex Toys can do things that fingers & penis alone cannot, and they can do them for longer. For those women who need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, a vibrator just cannot be beaten. It can be used during sexual intercourse to stimulate the clitoris. G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this. Wearing a penis ring can prolong an erection & delay ejaculation. The list of advantages goes on & on, the key thing is that by using Sex Toys to make things easier, you can relax & enjoy yourself rather than worry about not coming, or coming too soon, or getting cramp in your fingers etc.
2) It is very easy to get into certain routines when it comes to sex. Using a certain position, a certain type of stroke or lick to orgasm. Sex Toys can expand your sexual range, offering different stimulation than you will be used to with just fingers, hands, tongue etc. If you wear a penis sleeve, your partner will experience different sensations, if you use a small vibrator during oral sex the feelings of pleasure can double. Sex Toys give you the opportunity to experience a whole new range of sensations.
3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure.
4) Sex Toys increase the pleasure for couples. Sex Toys are not just for personal pleasure. The use of Sex Toys by couples can greatly enhance your relationship. Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time. Perhaps your partner (female) has always wondered what a double penetration might feel like, by using an Anal Toy you can give her that experience. Many couples report that their relationship has improved no end by introducing Sex Toys into their lovemaking.
5) You can improve your sexual & self-confidence by using Sex Toys. By using a Sex Toy on yourself, you are taking control of your sexual needs & desires. Even in today’s modern society, sexual pleasure is still rather a taboo subject. By taking matters into your own hands, rather than waiting for someone else, you learn more about your own sexuality; you will gain more self-confidence and expertise. You are then more likely to have satisfying sexual encounters in the future.
I hope that you have enjoyed this article & that you get something from it.
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Tue Dec 7, 2010 4:57:40 pm
This spam is worth keeping.
Tue Dec 7, 2010 4:59:00 pm
These are valid points, but sex is more psychological than physical for me.
Tue Dec 7, 2010 5:00:37 pm
"Check out her latest website" - You are not really Sally Knox?
Tue Dec 7, 2010 6:14:09 pm
"1) Sex Toys can do things that fingers & penis alone cannot, and they can do them for longer."
This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requires much practice. Which, as far as I'm concerned, is part of the fun.
"5) By using a Sex Toy on yourself, you are taking control of your sexual needs & desires [. . .] By taking matters into your own hands [. . .]"
Which people have been doing since, oh, I dunno, the beginning of the human race. Well, I mean, I can't say that for certain, obviously, but I would imagine cavemen masturbated quite a lot, because it feels good. And guess what--people still do it a fair bit today, with or without sex toys! I'm not even going to guess at how any sex toy would make "my special alone time with myself" any more enjoyable than it already is, but I think I'll pass.
Also from item # 5: "Even in today’s modern society, sexual pleasure is still rather a taboo subject."
No, it isn't. Where the hell do you live?! It may be taboo amongst certain company, but I would certainly not apply this generality to society at large.
Last one from item # 5: "[. . .] you will gain more self-confidence and expertise."
How does knowing how to get yourself off = confidence? Please explain this to me; I really don't get it. Because I've known how to get myself off since I was, like, eleven, but self-confidence didn't come to me until years later. And knowing how to please yourself is great and all, but it helps you zero when it comes to pleasing someone else; different people like different things. This knowledge will only come to you through experience with other people, which makes using toys on yourself a moot point.
In summation: No, you keep your sex toys. I prefer the application of general knowledge and skill, the ability to communicate desires, and the willingness to act on those desires. And I think someone who resorts to sex toys is probably a lazy lay, and therefore not worth fucking in the first place.
Tue Dec 7, 2010 6:17:08 pm
re: comment#5
"1) Sex Toys can do things that fingers & penis alone cannot, and they can do them for longer."
This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
Lol. Welcome to the Internet: the only place an ordinary person gets haughty and deconstructs an argument about sex toys.This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
Tue Dec 7, 2010 6:26:19 pm
re: comment#6
Lol. Welcome to the Internet: the only place an ordinary person gets haughty and deconstructs an argument about sex toys.
♥Tue Dec 7, 2010 6:27:57 pm
agrees with: comment#5
"1) Sex Toys can do things that fingers & penis alone cannot, and they can do them for longer."
This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
Tue Dec 7, 2010 7:57:45 pm
re: comment#5
"1) Sex Toys can do things that fingers & penis alone cannot, and they can do them for longer."
This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
Especially agree with #1. There's a reason women like musicians.This is but one reason it pays to become a virtuoso musician. Hours of practice add up to unnatural dexterity, speed, and endurance. I can do things with my fingers that would terrify a vibrator. I mean, you know, if a vibrator was sentient and capable of fear.
"2) G Spot vibrators are designed to easily massage the G Spot; the penis is just not the right shape for this."
The G-Spot is very, very easy to hit. It all comes down to angles/positions, which alone is enough to make sex more exciting and fun. If you need an appliance for this, you are doing it wrong. Also, not all penises are equal, and many come in different shapes.
"3) You can greatly enhance the mood by using Sex Toys. A massage is so much better if you use warming massage oils & have candles burning. The love making session can be made even more exciting if your hands are tied or you are wearing a blindfold. Adding Sex Toys can enhance your lovemaking and add a spark of adventure."
I agree with this one, except that it doesn't really belong in a blog about sex toys. None of these things are sex toys. Not one. Erotic massage is a long way away from double-dongs and butt-plugs.
"4) Imagine how much deeper your relationship will be if you use a Sex Toy that enables you both to climax together for the 1st time."
There are techniques known only to the sexually sophisticated that have to do with rhythm, tempo, and manual stimulation. You might look into a basic guide to sex some time, because it is well worth learning and--while I can't say for certain, as I have never used sex toys--probably a far more intimate and enjoyable way of achieving simultaneous orgasm than using an uncomfortable hunk of plastic. It is still difficult, though, even with these techniques, and requ...
Tue Dec 7, 2010 8:30:13 pm
re: comment#9
Especially agree with #1. There's a reason women like musicians.
It's because of the funny faces we make when we're concentrating on the notes, huh? 
Tue Dec 7, 2010 8:45:01 pm
re: comment#10
It's because of the funny faces we make when we're concentrating on the notes, huh?
Definitely. Tue Dec 7, 2010 8:54:30 pm
re: comment#12
Definitely.
See, I knew that! I'm like one of those geniuses, and it's all because I learnt music. Music made me smahrdur.Tue Dec 7, 2010 9:04:38 pm
re: comment#13
See, I knew that! I'm like one of those geniuses, and it's all because I learnt music. Music made me smahrdur.
And hotter. See how that works?Tue Dec 7, 2010 9:08:35 pm
re: comment#14
And hotter. See how that works?
Mmm, nope. I don't get it. ;)
Tue Dec 7, 2010 10:51:53 pm
re: comment#13
See, I knew that! I'm like one of those geniuses, and it's all because I learnt music. Music made me smahrdur.
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17) sallyknox, Wed Dec 8, 2010 4:43:58 pm
re: comment#3
"Check out her latest website" - You are not really Sally Knox?
I really am Sally KnoxWed Dec 8, 2010 4:47:07 pm
re: comment#17
I really am Sally Knox
Why do you refer to yourself in the third person?